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  1. When my mother died in 2002, it took me a week to convince her physician to let her home where she wanted to be. When it finally happened, it took 2 days to get a bed and all the other necessary equipment to make her comfortable. Hospice was even onboard and at the house before she actually got there. She was home less than 24 hrs before she passed.

    In my opinion, and from personal experience, if more in home help was available to assist family members in keeping their love ones home, they would do so. My mother was in a rehab (2ndary to full time nursing) a few weeks prior to her death. I was her only daughter and tried to be there between my job and family every few hours. More than not, when I rang for someone, 30 minutes would pass. When I went to the front desk directly 20 minutes or more would pass. When people are home, usually they are among the happenings of the household. They are catered to, they aren’t among strangers without compassion and understanding of who this person is!

    Choices for care (as many programs)is full of loop holes and has a 2-3 year waiting list. I have quadrepresis and dependent on a wheelchair for most of my mobility. I had a pulmonary emblism and have a Greenfield filter in. I cannot lift things out of my oven. I cannot change my sheets, or clean the bathroom or mop floors. This past year my medical expense out of pocket was over 12,000. Verifiable by my tax accountant. Our income is just over $30,000. My point is I was only looking for someone to come into my home and do 4hours of nitty gritty dysinfection cleaning. I was found ineligible because \I wasn’t disabled enough\. Because I cold get in and out of shower with the proper handrails and shower chair; and I could get in and out of bed.
    I appealed the denial and the attorney assigned me came to my house to meet me and observe. He told me, we could appeal and he believed I would get the denial reversed, but the program was frozen and it would be for the next couple of years. SO I SAID FORGET IT! No one understands about the emotional toll chronic pain has on someone. There is emotional, physical, spiritual and financial overwhemness that only one can imagine. Until you experience what it is like to feel like you are the reason your family may lose their housing and everything you’ve worked your whole life for; along with the career you fought tooth and nail to manage with the raising of your children; along with the acceptance that you will never dance again or roll in the leaves again with your grandchildren. Until you are in those shoes, you will not know how all the word games set purposely in these programs to be subjective, erode the requestee’s will to exist. This is how I feel. April 29 will be the 5th anniversary of my situation. Personally my heart is broken over what my family has given up to do for me. I should have some option to give them a break. After all there are all these programs to help (if you don’t mention the loop holes). Truth is, death is my only option for my family to get a break from doing things for me.

    Funny thing is, someone in Long term care can transfer 100′s of thousands and million dollar properties and the state pays for all their care with, if any, a small patient share. My husband and I make a little over $30,000 have no resources left to transfer, mortgaged to the hilt, had to purcase a handicap vehicle to the tune of $36,000 used. Thank goodness we did get help from Vocational Rehab with accomodations so that I could drive if need be. After 3 year waiting period. I drive rarely, due to fear that my reaction time won’t be quick enough. Intructor signed off tht I would be. However, I am really frightened. Maybe if I could have gotten the left foot accelerator in the 1st year. I’d be more confident. Who knows?

    I digress. My comments probably have little to do with this bill. However, somewhere in the healthcare verbage a blanket should cover things of this sort, considering people are under stress, not educated, etc. The bill siting on the rules and means floor concerning lymphedema (H ??) is rediculous. Lymphedema is a secondary disease I have that kees me immobile. It’s not considered a medical issue/whoever you can die from the effects of it! Beyond my comprehension. I learned it didn’t pass because doctors don’t have time (paid time) to comment on it. Unless it partcularly effects someone in their family they don’t have time.

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